Notes to self:1. Do not let frustrations get in the way of professional civility. 2. Set boundaries:…

Notes to self:

1. Do not let frustrations get in the way of professional civility.

2. Set boundaries: which communications channels are professional, which channels are personal.

Don’t let everything become everything; and if it has, take steps to remedy.

JUST TO BE CLEAR : my Tumblr & WordPress are personal. I’m setting this post to public as a matter of public record.


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Originally posted on February 13, 2018 at 01:32PM. [Tumblr direct link]

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I need practical tactics & exercises to rebuild willpower.Tactics for daily routines for how to…

I need practical tactics & exercises to rebuild willpower.

Tactics for daily routines for how to start the day included in that yes.

No I’m not asking for suggestions nor recommedations, I’m just stating a thought.


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Originally posted on February 13, 2018 at 12:36PM. [Tumblr direct link]

Self-control is hard when you don’t have emotional support from close friends, especially when…

Self-control is hard when you don’t have emotional support from close friends, especially when one has grown very dependent upon emotional support from close friends.

It is very much possible though. Just remember that emotional support from close friends is never, ever an absolute requirement.


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Originally posted on February 07, 2018 at 07:26PM. [Tumblr direct link]

Mental fatigue is in the head. The place to fight it, unsurprisingly, is also in your head….

Mental fatigue is in the head.

The place to fight it, unsurprisingly, is also in your head.

It’s simple. Not necessarily easy, but definitely simple.


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Originally posted on January 12, 2018 at 11:28AM. [Tumblr direct link]

Mental fatigue is in the head. The place to fight it, unsurprisingly, is also in your head….

Mental fatigue is in the head.

The place to fight it, unsurprisingly, is also in your head.

It’s simple. Not necessarily easy, but definitely simple.


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Originally posted on January 12, 2018 at 11:28AM. [Tumblr direct link]

unreliableI am unreliable. And I have made peace with thatThe World refuses to accept that I am…

unreliable

I am unreliable. And I have made peace with that

The World refuses to accept that I am unreliable. It shall continue to refuse to accept that I am unreliable.

…And as well I have also made peace with that.


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Originally posted on December 04, 2017 at 11:38AM. [Tumblr direct link]

For the thinking persons, there is a dialogue happening between the acts of reading books and…

For the thinking persons, there is a dialogue happening between the acts of reading books and writing books.

Whether the dialogue be competitive or cooperative, is another matter though.

Ideally it should be cooperative though, don’t you think? Constructive?

How was it said? “The goal of discussion should not be victory but rather progress”? Or something..?


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Originally posted on July 20, 2017 at 01:01PM. [Tumblr direct link]

The irony of opening up is that the only people who can hurt you deeply are the ones you care about…

The irony of opening up is that the only people who can hurt you deeply are the ones you care about deeply.

But open up anyway. Because though you may hurt less you’ll also grow ever more numb. You become more dead inside.


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Originally posted on May 28, 2017 at 06:43AM. [Tumblr direct link]